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elyse's avatar

I don't disagree with the idea of buying for longevity but in practice I feel like it can be a trap. Life is full of change – body, job, moving cities, climate, pregnancy, illness, even lifestyle/hobbies – and there are so many reasons that a piece that you "should" have been happy to wear in five years now isn't wearable much or at all. We beat ourselves up over that, like we should have "known" that our body was going to change. Then we get into a spiral before we buy anything at all, like, but what if??? (And on the flip side, occasionally an impulse or experiment piece becomes a hero piece you never expected to wear regularly!)

Obviously there's a huge value in being more considerate about if something is "just" a trend or an experiment, if you can really picture yourself wearing something. But it's not always easy to know if you'll still be wearing something in five years.

Sheila (of Ephemera)'s avatar

Love this, Tina! You know I adore vintage, but it is fraught with peril. Sizing is wacky (always get measurements), get photos of all tags and the inside of the garments (linings disintegrate).

FYI, your Vanity Fair “skirt” is a long half-slip; they made primarily undergarments. It’s probably from the 80s or earlier and will last forever.

Vintage fabrics are always better than modern, even polyester. 💕

Here’s to 2026!

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